When I was still employed, coffee was necessary to my ability to handle work problems. I had my systems all set up to be self-maintaining in terms of cleanup, monitoring and reporting tasks, backups, ... just about any software maintenance except patching. They sent me e-mails summarizing the previous nightly activities and analyses. But without that coffee, I was dreadfully slow in the mornings if anything came up.
Now? I'll drink coffee only if we happen to be out for breakfast, which isn't often. I usually drink tea and prefer a blended tea. But in some Oriental restaurants, if they have it, I will ask for jasmine tea. I have tried other teas including lapsang souchong, Earl Gray, and a few others - but they do little or nothing for me.
Bee - you didn't say whether you sweetened your tea before adding milk, but you are technically correct to speak ill of those who add milk first. Doing so interferes with the ability of your sweetener, whatever it is, to be dissolved and to thus permeate the liquid. The natural lipids of milk decrease the solubility factor for anything else added later.