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  1. Jon

    Eating fish - the new evil?

    Two good buddies of mine used to drool over foie gras. I couldn't do it. Then again, I don't like pate anyway! (They used to hate me calling it pate!).
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    The Grid - a productivity game changer (AMA)

    People generally try to do everything in a big hurry. Then it becomes incredibly hard at outset and the temptation to give up is great. I am guilty of this plenty of times myself, but all my research into the theories behind willpower and habit formation suggest for long term change, start slow.
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    Anxiety of the unknown

    As mentioned in another thread, I may be facing impending legal issues that could a) cost me a big chunk of money, and b) take down my entire ecommerce business. The completely unknown nature of the outcome is a heart pounding experience. And knowing you will have to wait for a long time to find...
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    The Grid - a productivity game changer (AMA)

    My recommendation would be to start with a very short list. Then, once each of these daily tasks become habit, slowly add new ones. When something is habitual, it takes up very little physical or mental energy. Habits help you preserve willpower for other stuff. I use conditional formatting in...
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    The Grid - a productivity game changer (AMA)

    Essentially, the spreadsheet is like a third-party who holds me to account. I want to keep the green streak going so it motivates me. The mere measurement also helps too. A couple of years ago, I was using a spreadsheet to self-account. But I didn't use the colour green. I stopped using the...
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    Insanity has been introduced to the environment

    Yes, I saw that in your conversation with Bee. We were talking amongst ourselves, debating which is was. I thought AI. But is that because I am into AI, futurism and the like, while Bee is more people orientated.
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    We reach 500 posts!

    Thanks to all members who have got stuck into the conversations and helped The Mind Tavern get off the ground. I hope you have enjoyed your time here and continue to do so. We are only nine days old and have already fleshed out the site a little, with plenty of interesting topics going on and...
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    Self-harm - why do it?

    I know of quite a few people who either self-harm or have done in the past. Apparently, a lot of young women have or do self-harm too, and I sense it is on the rise. When I was at school, I never even heard of such things, but then again I am a bit of a dinosaur nowadays. Do you know of anyone...
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    Panic attacks - having one now!

    Anyone had one? What are they like? (I'm having a mini-one now because I filed for a Trademark for my product and a rather large taxi-hailing service has opposed it. Just found out!)
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    Has divorce affected your mental health?

    Yes it has, perhaps best to get back on track.
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    Eating fish - the new evil?

    There is often much moral debate about the cruelty of eating the flesh of animals. I get it, I love our furry blighters! But I detect double standards. There are many pescetarians out there who love to chomp on fish. And here is where the crux of my argument comes in... The way fish are treated...
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    Religion and Spirituality name change

    I was thinking about where to post something about moral questions and I felt The Watercooler is ok, but not ideal. So, I have name changed the "Religion and Spirituality" forum to "Religion, Spirituality and Morality." I am not making the assumption that to be moral you need to be religious...
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    Shoe is on the other foot: Prove there is not a God

    Let's settle this once and for all. Prove there is not a God, if that is your belief.
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    What happens when you die?

    For me personally, I would love to believe in an afterlife. I see that belief as having many tangible benefits, including the alleviation of the fear of death. Yet at the same time, the scientist in me pulls towards my own oblivion. When I am dead, that's it! What is your view on this? Do you...
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    Has divorce affected your mental health?

    Is this a Mental Health Doc, or for the physical ailments?
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    The Grid - a productivity game changer (AMA)

    Let me introduce you to something that has had a transformative effect on my life. It is tried and tested and not just theoretical. It really does work, for me at least! It revolves around the assumption that your habits are essentially the drivers of what you do. Without the habit, you are left...
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    Has divorce affected your mental health?

    Do the doc meetings help out much? I can imagine the CBD thing getting into a nice little routine, a bit like when I go to my local coffee shop and order the same thing each day: medium cappuccino extra hot takeaway cup + biscotti. That is until they changed the brand of biscotti to a rubbish...
  18. Jon

    Tooth wiggling

    I started to get a bit of toothache early last night. Then, for some inexplicable reason, I can't stop wiggling the thing!! Why is that?
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    Has divorce affected your mental health?

    Do you do Yoga then? The CBD, pardon my ignorance, is it something you smoke mostly?
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