I have a friend who constantly hesitates when having to make any significant decision. He will discuss it with me, ponder over it, then appear to take a course of action.
When we speak again, weeks, or even months later, he will typically have backtracked because of xyz, and entertain the idea to take a different course of action.
It's his life, but I find his approach quite frustrating, and I have told him so several times. It gives me the idea of him stuck in a limbo, occasionally for years.
So, once I gave him a book for his birthday: The Decision Book - fifty models for strategic thinking. It's got many different approaches and, well, models, according to the type of decisions one needs to make.
I did not read it myself but I flicked through a few pages when I bought it for him and it looks promising. If you're struggling with decision-making it may be worth a try.
When we speak again, weeks, or even months later, he will typically have backtracked because of xyz, and entertain the idea to take a different course of action.
It's his life, but I find his approach quite frustrating, and I have told him so several times. It gives me the idea of him stuck in a limbo, occasionally for years.
So, once I gave him a book for his birthday: The Decision Book - fifty models for strategic thinking. It's got many different approaches and, well, models, according to the type of decisions one needs to make.
I did not read it myself but I flicked through a few pages when I bought it for him and it looks promising. If you're struggling with decision-making it may be worth a try.